NEWS
'Gentler'
soaps not so harmless
Indirect aggression is alive and well on the most popular programmes watched
by young people in the UK and can lead to anxiety, loneliness,
depression, bulimia and even suicide, according to Dr Sarah Coyne, psychology
lecturer at the University of Central Lancashire.
Speaking at the Churches Media
Conference earlier this month, she pointed out that her research on the
issue of indirect aggression covert, manipulative, behind the
back aggression had shown that girls are more likely to use this kind
of violence and that its effects can be devastating.
What is indirect aggression? Dr Coyne described it as very different
to physical violence gossiping, spreading rumours, excluding others
from the group, destroying friendships, anonymous notes and pointed out
that often those who practise indirect aggression in soaps and other programmes
are the attractive, popular female characters.
Her research also showed that the most aggressive soaps, from the indirect
point of view, were Emmerdale and Coronation Street and that viewing
this kind of aggression led to short-term aggressive behaviour.
And there is a lot of indirect aggression on TV almost double
that of physical violence she said. The effects of physical violence
are well-researched but indirect aggression is a new area of research.
Dr Coyne challenged parents, programme-makers and other researchers to take
the issue seriously. Parents should watch the programmes with their children
or else limit how much they watch. The sheer frequency of it is over the top
and children want to imitate it."
CARE
conference promotes internet purity
Web porn is rife in British churches, says the Christian social concern charity CARE,
which has organised a conference to help address the problem.
Hundreds are expected to attend the one-day event In Search Of Intimacy at
Londons Westminster Chapel on 8 October. It will advise church leaders
on how to help people whose lives have been affected by internet porn, covering
the themes of a specially written book to be published around the same time.
It will give a broad sweep of the current situation as well as practical
help, said CAREs General Director Nola Leach. It will include
what to do if people feel they are caught in this spiral and advice on how to
protect children from internet porn.
One of the speakers, Rob Parsons of CARE
for the Family, will explain how the use of pornography is often a search
for intimacy, which is ultimately to be found in Christ. Other contributors
will include medical expert Dr Trevor Stammers, Dr Stephen Carrick-Davies of
Childnet International, addictions specialist David Partington and child abuse
consultant Dr Alice Swann.
When CARE surveyed 3,500 church leaders in 2001, they found many had already
been consulted by people addicted to cybersex. Most of those pastors and ministers
said internet porn was a significant problem for some men.
In response, CARE launched the website www.care.org.uk/anon which
offers help to those struggling with this issue. Many leaders felt they
lacked the resources to help others, said Nola Leach. We want to
give them some practical tools without being judgemental in any way.
Unmarried
households with children double in 10 years
The
number of unmarried couples who live together and have children
has almost doubled in the decade leading up to 2001, according
to a report highlighted in The Telegraph this week.
More people are now living as unmarried couples with children than without.
Married couples with children are still the most common households. However
they are also the household type to have fallen most in popularity in the 1990s.
In 1991, 20.2 million people lived in such households, 35.9 per cent of the
population. By 2001 the figure had fallen to 17.5 million (29.8 per cent).
The
report found that in 2001 2.9 million people (5 per cent) lived
in unmarried couple households with children compared with 1.5
million in 1991 (2.6 per cent). The number of such households
increased across Britain. People were least likely to be living
in such households in Northern Ireland. The highest proportion
of such households was in the north of England, and generally
in poorer, more traditional areas of cities.(www.2-in-2-1.co.uk)
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