INSIGHT
'Cos
I gotta have faith
- Lincoln
student CHRIS BRADY reports on how university life can be all about
embracing God - with a little help from church and CU
The prospect
of packing your bags and leaving home for university is a daunting
predicament for any young believer.
There is, however, help at hand, as Carla Bullen, 20, a second-year
journalism student at Lincoln University explains:
"Most universities have structures in place so that people of
all religions can follow their faith whilst away from home. Student
believers here in Lincoln have both the Universitys Christian
Union and the nearby New Life Christian Fellowship Church.
"Theres about 60 members of our Christian Union and its
a terrific place for people of the same faith to meet. The Fellowship
Church is also great to have, because it helps newcomers to Lincoln
feel welcome as they begin celebrating their faith in a different
community."
Societys stereotyped view of student life portrays an environment
of heavy drinking, casual sex and cannabis experimentation. Carla
has seen the reality of this for herself and acknowledges that problems
can occur, with pressures to conform to how many non-believer students
behave.
"Since Ive been here, there have been a lot of students
who have arrived that have struggled to cope with a wave of new social
pressures. They feel like they have to dress a certain way and behave
in a certain manner just simply to fit in. This isnt the case,
though.
"Thanks to the Christian Union, we have cell groups. I head one
of these and people congregate round at my house on a Thursday for
a few hours. Its nice to chat with people who are having similar
problems and help each other through them.
"You can detect an atmosphere at university implying that everybody
should agree with the student culture of the majority, but its
important to be confident in your worship, otherwise I think the pressures
would make you crack up."
Carla, who left her hometown in Devon to take a gap year which involved
five months' missionary work with a tribe in Benin, North Africa,
admits to feeling frustrated at aspects of student culture.
"So many girls that I know complain about their weight and feel
pressured to boast extraordinary slim physiques. I find this mentality
astounding, especially when there are people starving all over the
world.
"Ive learnt to appreciate the non-material elements of
life. Its the larger girls in parts of Africa that are the most
desirable to men, as their figures suggest they have led healthy lives!
Other teething troubles at university can involve the narrow-minded
views of a minority of other students.
"You get the odd person who associates the word Christian
with images of geeks wearing glasses holding onto their Bibles, but
Ive found with most people, that so long as you dont judge
them, they will take the time to get to know you properly.
"Its about appreciating how other people live," she
continued. "Christian and non-believer students may not agree
with how each other lives, but its important to respect each
other. My friends who previously had uncertain or negative views concerning
my faith have changed their attitudes dramatically.
"Housemates have accompanied me to Sunday morning service, after
witnessing some of my prayers come true. Its rewarding because
theyve started to show more of an interest in both prayer and
God."
A large banner outside Lincolns New Life Fellowship Church reads
Welcoming All Students, whilst the churchs Weekly
Times newsletter outlines a packed schedule including prayer meetings,
worship bands and community activities.
Its not only Christian students who have ample opportunity to
worship during their time at university, but also students who might
not previously have had the benefit of learning about the Christian
faith.
Carla is especially grateful for the spirited activities that the
Church organises in the community, not only because she can share
her faith, but also because it highlights the generosity of believers.
"We spent one weekend visiting student accommodation and washing
up! There was no preaching to people, but if they asked questions,
we were there to answer.
"The exercise made people think and most were interested to know
why we were doing it. It gave student believers the chance to both
teach and help people, whilst allowing other students the option of
witnessing our work."
Edward Kemp, 20, a fellow student at Lincoln, believes that his enthusiasm
for God would most definitely have wavered if church and the CU had
not been around.
"Theyve both been a massive help, encouraging me to continue
following my faith. Back home in Norfolk I often felt obliged to go
to church because of my parents, but when you go to university its
all down to the individual.
"At first I found it really difficult and I think it was really
touch-and-go. If there hadnt been other Christian friends there
to motivate me, then I dont think wed be having this conversation."
Now in his second year of a Marketing and Advertising course, Edward
is closer to God than ever.
"I got baptised for a second time in November, which was really
important to me. I wanted to make a statement to my friends, God and
mainly myself, that I was taking my beliefs more seriously.
"Were also starting a worship band at church which is great.
At the moment we tend to play songs by artists such as Tim Hughes
and Matt Redman, but were planning to start performing with
some of our own material."
Any believers contemplating attending university take note. It might
be worrying to leave home, but God is accessible wherever you are.
Christian Unions and churches nearby to universities are constantly
welcoming believers into their congregations. Although becoming a
student should primarily further your academic education, there is
no reason why it shouldnt also further your relationship with
God.
- Chris
Brady is in his third year studying journalism at Lincoln University
Helpful
contacts: UCCF www.uccf.org.uk
Fusion www.fusion.org.uk
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